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The Hidden Costs of Dying (And How to Avoid Them)
Dying is Expensive. And the Hidden Fees? Even Worse.
Beth Montgomery
Mar 192 min read
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The Sticker Shock of Dying (and How to Avoid It)
Dying is Expensive. But It Doesn’t Have to Be.
Here’s a little reality check: The average funeral costs as much as a used car.
Beth Montgomery
Feb 132 min read
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Living Authentically: The Power of Planning Before Crisis Hits
Living authentically means making intentional choices while you still have the power to do so.
Beth Montgomery
Feb 52 min read
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What Happens When You’re a Caretaker but There’s No Inheritance Plan?
Without a will or any legal paperwork, many families face probate court, which is a legal process to sort out the estate.
Beth Montgomery
Jan 93 min read
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What Are Green Burials? A Simple, Earth-Friendly Way to Say Goodbye
Choosing a green burial isn’t just about what happens when we die; it’s a reflection of how we choose to live.
Beth Montgomery
Jan 22 min read
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How to Have “The Talk” About End-of-Life Plans Without Everyone Running for the Hills
Let’s be honest: talking to your parents about their end-of-life plans isn’t the dinner table chat anyone’s dying to have (pun intended).
Beth Montgomery
Dec 18, 20242 min read
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Do It Before You're Dead: Why Planning for Death Lets You Truly Live
Planning for death might sound grim, but it’s the most freeing thing you’ll ever do—and here’s why.
Beth Montgomery
Dec 4, 20242 min read
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Live Fully: Life-Changing Lessons from a Death Doula
So, what can death teach us about life? Here’s what I’ve learned.
Beth Montgomery
Nov 27, 20243 min read
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Financial Preparation for End-of-Life: Compassionate Guidance from a Death Doula
This isn’t just about money; it’s about freeing up emotional space for those we care about so they can focus on healing and remembering.
Beth Montgomery
Nov 6, 20245 min read
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Financial Preparation for End-of-Life: Insights from a Death Doula
Facing the reality of end-of-life planning is difficult for many, and financial preparation is often one of the most daunting aspects.
Beth Montgomery
Oct 30, 20245 min read
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Breaking the Silence: How to Build a Safe Space for Honest Conversations About Death
Talking about death and dying is something that many people find uncomfortable, even though it's one of the most natural parts of life.
Beth Montgomery
Oct 16, 20244 min read
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Say Yes Now: How Embracing Life Leads to Fewer Regrets at the End
When it comes to end-of-life reflections, one common theme echoes through the stories of those I’ve sat with—"I wish I had said yes more."
Beth Montgomery
Oct 9, 20243 min read
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Supporting Autonomy: Honoring Your Loved One’s Choices at the End of Life
Whether it’s deciding on caregiving roles, healthcare choices, or even end-of-life plans, we often fall into the trap of assuming...
Beth Montgomery
Sep 25, 20244 min read
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Embracing the Glimmer of Hope Amidst Grief
From my experience as a death doula, I’ve learned that embracing these small pockets of light is crucial to finding our way forward.
Beth Montgomery
Sep 18, 20243 min read
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Embracing Anticipatory Grief and Finding Meaning in the Moment
Anticipatory grief is like sitting in the waiting room of loss. You can see what’s coming, but you’re not quite there yet.
Beth Montgomery
Sep 11, 20242 min read
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The Power of Planning: How Getting Your Living Will on Paper Frees Your Spirit
Let’s be honest, who’s really jumping out of bed in the morning, excited to tackle their Advanced Care Directives or Living Will? Yeah,
Beth Montgomery
Sep 4, 20242 min read
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